‘Soft’ skills

Some of the desired changes I help people with as a personal coach – not only executives. The ‘soft’ skills frequently appear to be the harder skills.

Luisteren met sterkteoren

Ik ben het boek aan het lezen dat al enige tijd mijn naam fluisterde: ‘An American Healer‘, over de homo empiricus bij uitstek / pionier / verhalenverteller Milton Erickson. Ettelijke inzichten en anecdotes die mijn aandacht trekken, en die mijn eigen werk met klanten verder zullen verrijken. Betty Alice, een van Ericksons dochters, getuigt over […]

Listening with strength ears

Reading the book that was whispering my name already for some time: ‘An American Healer‘, about homo empiricus / pioneer / story-teller Milton Erickson. Many insights and stories that caught my attention and will further impact my own work with clients. Betty Alice, one of Erickson’s daughters, talks about her own 3 kids helping Milton […]

Best possible versus dream

Find the right supporting eco-system and resources to build your best possible career, whether that is vertical, diagonal or horizontal in the organogram. You may also consider to take a step back, sometimes that’s an option too. You can’t grow by yourself in a sustainable way, creating a small ego-system. ‘Mentors advise, sponsors act’. And […]

Invloed

‘Ik heb geen formele macht om dit te veranderen’, hoor je medewerkers soms zeggen in organisaties.